Daughter is a "flower". Why violence against women?

Daughter is a "flower". Why violence against women? *

On the occasion of the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women on November 25, 2023, a 16-day movement was announced to organize a global awareness campaign against gender-based violence. Try to show it in terms of "glamour world" by decorating it, but it cannot be denied that there is no shortage in situations like violence or depression. Why is this?

daughter a "bud":

When a daughter is born in a house, she becomes a "bud" whose fragrance fills the whole house. As she grows up, she adds to the beauty of the world under the veil of her modesty. Nature likes beauty and beauty, so now it becomes necessary for everyone that all people around him and far away do not show any lack of respect for him. It is conveyed that in the next few years, she will be married to another house. Therefore, she is trained to be a decent girl to live the practical life of the future. But she is a fragile and dreamy little "princess" of her parents. On her wedding day, she is thinking that now she is going to become a "queen" in her husband's house. Her husband will be like a king who will take care of her with all his heart and soul. But perhaps along with happiness, social fear is also hidden in some corner of the mind, so there is a shower of tears while leaving the house. Along with the parents. The eyes also get teary thinking in whose hands they are giving a piece of their liver. Everyone is praying for all the best for him in the future.

A queen was not a princess:

what happened!! Within a few days, I have seen the times of my husband and his family. Many lies have started to be exposed. First of all, the husband's education was not what was told during the relationship. Oh!! What happened? Mentally, she also has a strange behavior. The mother-in-law, as a mother, had endured the abuse of her son, but there is more of a waywardness in her habits. What should that girl do now? If she asks a question, quarrel. No, her training is not like that. She is also used to quarrels in houses. In which house there are no quarrels. But are husbands like that? I heard that nowadays, after marriage, the husband leaves his business or job and tells his wife to go and bring money from her parents. Some have nothing. They are shown in the green garden. But has she also joined them? She is an educated girl. Who has the right to ask this question. Then she dared to ask, and there was a loud slap and the queen. All the dreams of the princess were broken before they were born. What will happen now? How will life pass? To whom should one go and raise a voice? Is there any organization at the international level or at the national level? If there is, then will justice be found?

Old Age Support for Husband:

For many such questions, that fragrant bud begins to wither and begins its practical life in which dreams are broken now and the first goal becomes the upbringing of its children. It seems that people are telling her that a woman has no place in this society, nor does she deserve the rights that have been assigned to her. Rather, she has reached the point of her household where she will also be responsible for the shortage. The honor and reputation of the family is given to her. But when she asks for that love in return, which is fragrant in some corner of her heart, she is surprised that now she has become a support for her husband in old age. has come

Compromise with sorrows:

This is the first violence on a woman, on which she thinks, "Do it with agreed sorrows". The process looks advanced. If in the meantime, someone else turns off the affair, the matter gets worse and then killing the woman is considered an emotional act. Then excuses are found to save the man. Apart from this, there are many other cases where women are victims of violence at the hands of other men as well. Taking extreme steps like throwing acid on the face is not avoided. This would make the rest of the woman's life meaningless. Is.

Why women do not get justice?

Shouldn't women be persuaded to raise their voices to protect their rights in today's modern age? If some percentage of women are doing it, why don't the governments of those countries provide them justice. Today, in spite of serving women in every field, they are not able to get their desired position, but they are not able to convince the society.

Brief True Story:

"An educated girl got married in a good house, but her husband was not used to smoking cigarettes, but during the torture of his wife, he used to put a lit cigarette on her body and listen to her screams and was happy." I did not know that the bud is withering". Is this the sanctity of relationships???

How violence against women can be stopped:

This is a question on which many solutions have been described. Sometimes it is said to be a psychological issue and contact the relevant doctors. In the present era, financial problems are also said to be the main reason for which the solution for women is related to income. Emphasis is placed on providing business or suitable employment opportunities. Special sessions for women k

The rules have been encouraged to get out of the emotional state and confront the real world by telling the truth. Give priority to developing patience in the training of boys. The most important thing is that men and women look at every issue in a positive way. There will be a shortage and the solution will also be positive. Now the only instinct left is for him:

1) Religious training *All are equal*.

2) The worldly term *inhumanity*.